The most horrible crime a man commits is proving to be a macho hero by hurting his wife mentally,physically,emotionally & sexually! How dare you! And it pains me more when women allow that to happen! Why? There’s absolutely no justification for this act. It traumatises not only the woman for life but the kids involved as well! It emotionally draines the women,gives her low self esteem & lose all sexual interest!

Why? How would you feel if the man marrying your daughter or sister hurts her in this way? How would you feel if your father raised his hand on your mother? This is not a social issue…this is a man’s ego issue! It’s his insecurity & I urge all the women to stand up for their rights & speak up! Pls learn to fight for yourself! Be your own advocate! Unfortunately the South Asian families do not provide ample support & back off in fear of fake family honor! My dear women…..you must take a stand for yourself,be strong & help yourself! These are not just words…I speak from a close call!

25 South Asian teenagers died last year because of either speeding or drunk driving.RDB concert was arranged recently to bring awareness but 2 hrs after the show,guys left the venue speeding while drunk,changing lanes like a mad person!! what will it take to realize the value of life? you could be dead ,in a coma or end up disabled for the rest of your life & then what? its over with…your life ,your career,the fun…everything! But here’s the sad part…..life goes on for everyone else in this world,your family,friends,relationship.They will continue partying after mourning your loss for a few days…which is really only & only your loss! Its YOU whos not there to party anymore while everyone else has moved on in life & That my friends is the ugly truth!So pls be selfish & think about yourself the next time you intend to drink & drive!Think about how it can end your life,how it can change your life,who cares if others think you are not cool just because you value life…tell them to take a chance,why play with your future?

To all the desi parents who’ve turned a blind eye that their kids don’t drink & drive,wake up pls! Stop acting dumb & turning a blind  to your child’s problems,be their friend & talk to them about the dangers!By avoiding the issue you cannot ignore the problem,your child does drink & will God forbid get hurt one day!So stop pretending like nothing’s wrong & create awareness @ home with healthy dinner time discussions.